How many times have you heard from others, get clear on what you want and then you will be fine. Does that annoy you and get you screeching back, “I don’t know how”. This is a major step that leaves me and my clients stuck and unclear. We feel frustrated, angry with ourselves and sometimes even has us moving backwards. I will share my 3 tips to alleviate all your frustrations on how to get clear and what to do when you are still surrounded by this “I don’t know what I want fog”!
- Fake it until you make it – rather than saying I don’t know what I want, reverse it into the positive and say “I do know what I want”. I am waiting for the opportunities. Yes, this may sound mad but it does work. I have tried this on numerous occasions and so have my clients. It just takes off the pressure of having to work it out and it relieves the stress of having to do it yourself. It also puts us back in the flow of receiving all the good things and makes us feel better. By turning anything into the positive you are taking steps in trusting that the universe will hear you and will show you the right path.
- Watch when you get jealous. It’s not wrong to be jealous of others and it may spark off something that you want. It may spark off one of your own desires and if you see others having it, then note it down. This will also support your ego mind when it wonders off into you can’t have it scenario because you have evidence that someone else can have it, so can you.
- Dream – look through magazines and make a vision board. Really listen to what your body is telling you, are you excited by looking at a picture or not. Your feelings of excitement will actually tell you what your desires are. Do you look at a picture of a beach and totally feel alive? Do you look at a big house and feel nothing? See which one you feel excited about, if you are totally lit up about a picture then stick with that feeling.
It is when we limit ourselves that our thoughts of “I don’t know what I want” become stronger and will leave you going round and round in circles. Don’t let this happen to you.
These are simple steps but will take you out of struggle and get you back into thinking about what you want. But don’t forget these desires can change, don’t get hung up on if I’ve written it down then I must make it happen. NO, when we grow as people our desires naturally change.
Don’t hold yourself back because you might not know what you want. Take the next step in gaining clarity on what you want.
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